Valid points, but the geographies you mention interest me. I currently live in Singapore and have been across most of those places indicated. My view is that they have developed recently and not many (if not none) of the growth can be traced back to colonialism.
Take Singapore as example. It has a strategic geographical significance and a important seaport gateway to India and China. As such it gained importance to East India Company who already had roots in India and had trade links to China. Apart from the usualy by products of british law, what other benefict do you think Singapore had due to colonialism. It was predominantly a migrant colony (mostly from China) and migrant workers were in demand for ports. Colony or not, Singapore simply by its geographical location would be a important player in the regions. Moreover most of Singapore's development I think is due to post MY seperation governtment initiated measures and nothing to do with past colonialism there, imo.
Remarkably enough, so do I. Where you at atm?
I take your point that statistically, much of Singapore's growth occurred after decolonization. Yet who put LKY, the man who for all his faults truly is the father of this country, in charge? Who instituted respect for the rule of law that allowed us to develop as a democracy rather than crashing and burning right out of the gate like Vietnam or Cambodia did, putting their own troops on the line to fight the communist insurgencies of the 50s? Whose institutions, fundamentally, have we adopted and moulded for our own benefit? In short, we may have driven the car ourselves to our destination we wanted, but who built the car?
You ask, for instance, about what benefits we had from colonialism - I've spent literally every single day of my life in institutions that are direct descendants of ones the British set up - boys' public school, the military, and then a British-founded law university. These institutions endure, oftentimes retaining their colonial-era names, and that should tell you something about the way we view our colonial heritage. Now, obviously, as you say, they were set up for the Brits' own benefit, to educate just enough locals to help out in the administration of
their colony, to defend
their colony, for
their benefit, sure. But it'd be incredibly churlish of us to forget the part the British played in building something from nothing in the first place.
Don't get me wrong, we have much to be proud of in terms of how far we've come on our own merits. But the groundwork wasn't laid by us. Again, the British found us a fishing village not far removed from the Iron Age. They left us a metropolis of about a million. The troops have left, but we remain British and western allies by choice and not necessity, because we remember our friends. This is a common enough sentiment, if you ask around.
I get your point about it being purely self-interested. But there are no free lunches in this world. The Brits got what they came for, and so did we.