Comment: A lesson learned
Stuart Brennan
THERE can be no Geordie-style crying, no wailing or gnashing of teeth, just a simple acceptance that United were beaten by the better team.
An early exit from the Champions League is never satisfactory, especially for a club of the Reds' standing.
But last season's last-minute crash to Porto was far more painful, as it came against a team United should have beaten, and would have done but for a poor linesman's decision and Tim Howard's mistake.
That hurt was exacerbated by the fact that Porto went on to win the damned thing.
As for Milan, you just have to wish them luck - an excellent team and deserving winners.
But where do United go from here? The glib answer is St Mary's Stadium on Saturday for an FA Cup quarter-final.
Sir Alex Ferguson maintains that one trophy a season, any trophy, is a good return for a Premiership club.
But, as he watches Chelsea disappear over the horizon in the league and into the Champions League quarter-finals - with one cup already banked - he knows that even an FA Cup triumph will do little to fill the hollowness.
You can bet that he and Carlos Queiroz have already started their inquest, and are thinking of next season's CL campaign.
Ferguson talks about improving his team by small percentages every year, and that is really all that is needed.
They can learn a lesson in possession football, movement and technique from Milan, but for all the Rossoneri's dominance, there is not as much distance between the two sides as the two games would make you think.
The obvious improvement needed for next season comes between the sticks.
Rookie
This two-legged tie was lost when Roy Carroll allowed Clarence Seedorf's shot to bounce off his chest to Hernan Crespo's feet at Old Trafford a fortnight ago.
Howard should be afforded more time - he is still a rookie - but United clearly need someone else.
Critics have castigated Ferguson for not "buying a keeper" in the winter transfer window, as if he could pop down to JJB Sports and take one off the shelf.
But it has to be a Red priority in the summer, along with the perennial search for Roy Keane's successor in midfield.
Keane remains one of the best, if not the best, midfielder in the Premiership, but at San Siro he could no longer summon the demonic desire that carried United through the semi-final against Juventus in 1999.
There are plenty of problems to iron out, but few Reds would have surveyed the team Ferguson played in Italy without their mouths watering.
Ruud van Nistelrooy - clearly unfit - Wayne Rooney, Ryan Giggs, Cristiano Ronaldo and Paul Scholes make an attacking five to worry anyone, if they get the ball.
Yet the dominance of possession that Ferguson had promised after the first leg did not materialise. Too many players gave the ball away cheaply, with Mikael Silvestre and Gabriel Heinze particular culprits.
What an irony that a Frenchman and an Argentinian should manifest a bad trait that is so typically English when it comes to European football.
The plus points are that Rooney and Ronaldo, both very quiet on the night, will emerge from the gloom of San Siro as better players.
Milan must be hot tips to win the Champions League now.
There is no disgrace for United, just lessons to be learned and a goalkeeper to be sought.