I'll make my last post in this thread. I do believe there's a big difference in what I believe in and what I do. I don't discriminate against any person, LGBT, gender skin color, nationality etc. As an Indian living in US, I've been subjected to some ludicrous stereotyping and racial slurs. I'm not playing the victim card here, I'm just telling you that I know the feeling of being discriminated against. It's not a pleasant feeling.
Let me make a clear distinction here, I've never thought that gay people shouldn't be allowed to marry each other, I'm saying I don't believe in that concept, which is why I don't do it. What they do, is clearly their business and they are welcome to do it. I'm not opposed to them doing it, I'm just saying I won't do it, because I don't believe in it. I've been brought up to do what I believe in. I don't campaing against them doing it, I'm not denying their right to get together with each other. I don't turn my face around when I see LGBT people or deny business when it comes from them, and I wank to lesbian porn. I'm not sure how to put this in words, so I've tried to explain as carefully as I can. I'm straight and that's my choice and I'm not gay, because I don't believe in the concept of LGBT. I don't deny others the right to marry, gay, straight or otherwise. I'm persona non grata here, I don't make up policies of the land. If I was in a position to do, I believe I would not deny any LGBT person their right to marry, because then it becomes my job to worry about the rights of those people. So I don't know if it makes sense to you folks.
We all carry prejudices with us. I had a colleague who was hardcore against gay people and he was crucified in our friends get together (which I thought he deserved for his unjustified stance), till we came to know later that he was abused by his uncle in his teens. So it's very easy for any of us to call another person a bigot, so I'll tread a bit carefully there. In the end, I think you being fired from your job because of your personal stance is a bit of a dangerous territory, as we'll never be consistent with it and it's a very dangerous territory.
I apologize to any of you if you were offended by the comparison with paedophiles, which was uncalled for. I didn't mean to offend, and it was inconsiderate while trying to make a point. This is not only because I don't want to be banned, but I genuinely wanted to set the record straight. Being called a bigot and a wannabe feminist by a keyboard warrior in a forum who thinks women have the same size feet as men is a bit amusing though, although I won't bite again.