Unless you are whatever-his-name is, you wouldn't know that. You can hazard a guess, or form an opinion, but that's all you can do. You are basically arguing with the other poster (and now me) that you know his intentions (and Mel and Craig's feelings) better than either of us does....
Here's something for y'all to think about. Sometimes someone who has been abused, pretends that it's nothing for numerous reasons, such as not rocking the boat, not wanting to seem soft, etc... I saw your earlier post, but I'm commenting on this specific issue.