The last couple of days are a microcosm of why this is so toxic and tragic. Feels like there are few people who are actually genuinely concerned about the humanitarian aspects and more concerned about point scoring, selective sympathy or projecting the worst possible perception on the other side.
I haven't heard much outrage about the prospect that Islamic Jihad killed hundreds of Palestinian civilians in the process of trying to kill Israeli civilians, as if somehow if the IDF killed them it makes it more of a tragedy and injustice. And very weird attempts to draw moral high grounds in areas of beheading or not beheading babies, when thousands of people have died brutally.
It should be possible to criticise the Israeli govt/Hamas for what they are actually doing and why they are objectively doing it, than essentially projecting your own disdain for them as a strawman.