Positive role models? Stable family unit? Parents not off their tits on drugs and booze? A few lucky breaks to give them something in life to look forward to? Who knows.
Like I say, its something thats developed over generations and become self fuelled, why are some of their parents off their tits and others not?
Why doesn't everyone who comes from an unstable family or a less than ideal upbringing involved?
You can blame society all you want, and as I say I agree to a large extent but society is us, its not the government, having nothing or government policies that you dont agree with or which make like hard don't give you a right to raise your kids as little fecking thugs with no respect for society.
I grew up in a family of 5 on a council estate in 80's Ireland, none of my mates went to college, my Dad wasn't around for half my life (he was forced to work abroad), we had sweet feck all, but none of us ended up anything other than contributing members of society (we've all worked our entire adult lives and never been in trouble).... And thats not a poor me story, I know other people who had it much tougher than we did, alcoholic and abusive parents who also went on to live decent lives.
I'm not saying its not hard for some people it is, its very hard and some things in society are very wrong and do contribute to things like this, but your attitudes and values are primarily instilled in your family, society is part of the problem but saying its the root cause isn't right IMO, the people ARE society, its not external to us.