Gay Marriage

So, in your opinion, as long as the government recognised a same-sex union on the same terms as a marriage, that would be fine?
If so, we are in the same boat!
I just don't think it should be called marriage. It could be called something else - like parriage.

Why? Because you feel icky about it?
 
Why? Because you feel icky about it?

No. Because, to go all the way back to my original post, I believe a marriage is a union between man and woman. Simple.
And, as I've already mentioned, I don't have anything against gay people so there's nothing to be icky about.
 
No. Because, to go all the way back to my original post, I believe a marriage is a union between man and woman. Simple.
And, as I've already mentioned, I don't have anything against gay people so there's nothing to be icky about.
You clearly do have something against gay pay, you're think the thousands of gay people currently married to each other should have that taken away from them and that none should be allowed to marry in the future.
 
Most just don't understand why it would bother you in the slightest. You don't have to watch them consummate it or anything, it has nothing to do with you.

If something has nothing to do with you, you shouldn't be bothered about it. Would you agree with this statement?
 
You clearly do have something against gay pay, you're think the thousands of gay people currently married to each other should have that taken away from them and that none should be allowed to marry in the future.

Oh my goodness you simply don't try to understand other people's views, Silva.
 
No. Because, to go all the way back to my original post, I believe a marriage is a union between man and woman. Simple.
And, as I've already mentioned, I don't have anything against gay people so there's nothing to be icky about.

So you think the law should create separate institutions separating people by their sexuality just because you "believe" it? Surely you see that isn't a way to run a country.
 
So you think the law should create separate institutions separating people by their sexuality just because you "believe" it? Surely you see that isn't a way to run a country.

You still aren't making the distinction between sexuality and gender, Eboue. Mine isn't an anti-gay stance. It's an anti same-sex marriage stance.
 
No. Because, to go all the way back to my original post, I believe a marriage is a union between man and woman. Simple.
And, as I've already mentioned, I don't have anything against gay people so there's nothing to be icky about.

Sadly, for you, it seems you are going to have to alter your belief system to view marriage as a legal union between two consenting adults where the sex of those adults is irrelevant.
 
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Seven pages since yesterday on Same-Sex Marriage. I thought I was going to read some compelling arguments from both sides of the debate but it's just McMuffin trying to argue all logic being put before him. This whole thread has read a bit like this Richard Dawkins interview with Wendy Wright. (He's the woman by the way... the rest of you are all Dawkins, in case that wasn't glaringly obvious). :lol:

 
We set several limits on who can get married, the main one I can think of right now is a minimum age. I think it's 16 in California. The reason for that is rational, having to do with a concept of informed consent. But whatever the limits of who can marry whom are, they have to be rational. It would not, for example, be rational to prohibit a Latino from marrying a black or a left-hander from marrying a right-hander.

We also prohibit siblings (cousins too) from marrying each other, the rational basis for that being the health of the children that might arise from this marriage. Second cousins are ok, not sure about aunts or uncles. Parent-child marriages are a no-go.

I have yet to hear a rational argument against same sex marriage. The strongest argument I've heard is that's always been so, so it must always be so. But surely if a rational argument existed, it must be stronger than the "it has been thus, thus so it must always be".

An interesting gotcha argument by the right-wing would be asking why an incestuous gay marriage should be prohibited, since there is no chance of an offspring arising from a same sex marriage between a dad and his son. I'd have to work out an argument for that, but there is no question in my mind that incestuous marriages of any kind, same or opposite sex, must remain off limits.
 
If something has nothing to do with you, you shouldn't be bothered about it. Would you agree with this statement?
If something other people are doing harms neither of them nor anyone else and has nothing to do with you, you shouldn't be bothered about it. I agree with that one, which is the case here. The ones being harmful tend to be the homophobes looking to discriminate.
 
Distinction without a difference because I'm not aware of there being a lot of gay men trying desperately to marry a woman.

Do you not know gay men who have married women?? (and vice versa?)
 
We set several limits on who can get married, the main one I can think of right now is a minimum age. I think it's 16 in California. The reason for that is rational, having to do with a concept of informed consent. But whatever the limits of who can marry whom are, they have to be rational. It would not, for example, be rational to prohibit a Latino from marrying a black or a left-hander from marrying a right-hander.

We also prohibit siblings (cousins too) from marrying each other, the rational basis for that being the health of the children that might arise from this marriage. Second cousins are ok, not sure about aunts or uncles. Parent-child marriages are a no-go.

I have yet to hear a rational argument against same sex marriage. The strongest argument I've heard is that's always been so, so it must always be so. But surely if a rational argument existed, it must be stronger than the "it has been thus, thus so it must always be".

An interesting gotcha argument by the right-wing would be asking why an incestuous gay marriage should be prohibited, since there is no chance of an offspring arising from a same sex marriage between a dad and his son. I'd have to work out an argument for that, but there is no question in my mind that incestuous marriages of any kind, same or opposite sex, must remain off limits.

I think with incest you also have the probability that someone is being exploited. Especially with parent/child incest.
 
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Seven pages since yesterday on Same-Sex Marriage. I thought I was going to read some compelling arguments from both sides of the debate but it's just McMuffin trying to argue all logic being put before him. This whole thread has read a bit like this Richard Dawkins interview with Wendy Wright. (He's the woman by the way... the rest of you are all Dawkins, in case that wasn't glaringly obvious). :lol:



I'm sorry, but your contribution has no insight. Again, ridicule is the first recourse of those without an argument.
 
I'm sorry, but your contribution has no insight. Again, ridicule is the first recourse of those without an argument.

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I have no interest in arguing with you, in the same way I have no interest in banging my head against the wall. You're great entertainment. Keep up the good work buddy.
 
Do you not know gay men who have married women?? (and vice versa?)

Gareth Thomas the Welsh rugby player. You should read his book and share his pain of a life he felt he had no choice but to take because of the social pressures put on him, especially as a "man" playing a "mans game"

since same-sex couples obviously can't procreate. Here, Eboue mentions that infertile couples can (quite rightly) be married. But that's not the point. The point is that marriage is the best environment in which to create children and foster their development.
And why the hell can two women who are married not offer a loving caring home to children they have through adoption or using a surrogate father or a turkey baster? Or two men who adopt?

Or is that taboo too?
 
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I have no interest in arguing with you, in the same way I have no interest in banging my head against the wall. You're great entertainment. Keep up the good work buddy.

If you have nothing constructive to say, why say anything at all?
 
Gavin Henson the Welsh rugby player. You should read his book and share his pain of a life he felt he had no choice but to take because of the social pressures put on him, especially as a "man" playing a "mans game"


And why the hell can two women who are married not offer a loving caring home to children they have through adoption or using a surrogate father or a turkey baster? Or two men who adopt?

Or is that taboo too?

I admit the possibility they can. Perhaps you can also admit the possibility they can't (or perhaps not).
But women can be in a civil partnership and bring up a child. Or my afore-mentioned parriage.