@17 Van der Gouw no worries

I would say that the effect of racism isn’t felt on any isolated singular incident.
What I mean is that, seeing blackface isn’t the singular cause of any change in mood I may feel - but rather the fact that blackface is still *a thing* is added on top as part of a culmination of everything to do with racism.
Ultimately living with racism isn’t about the individual insults or mistreatment you get - it’s a continual reminder that the way you look is enough for someone to treat you differently, and it’s not always a bad thing, but it becomes a burden to carry. I
couldn’t tell you the last time I went to a new environment where I wasn’t conscious of my race, and how I would be perceived, even as a child.
I’ve said before that it’s similar to having anxiety 24/7, with no medication help.
Ultimately that becomes traumatic over time, I would say that’s the hardest part to try and get across to someone who doesn’t understand - living as a minority in society is traumatic, and across the spectrum of trauma you have individuals who deny it, others who deal with it, others who can’t handle it etc.
For me personally, I see blackface and I’m disappointed but not surprised. These things don’t anger or hurt me anymore because I’ve become numb to people mocking black people for the way we look, and equally I’ve grown tired of people denying black people the right to be hurt/upset/offended at something, when that something doesn’t affect them.