I answered your question. Read it again. No was the answer.
You are basing your opinion of an entire football population on the opinion of two people. Seems a bit weak to me. Why is De Gea allowed to do something like that, but not Rooney? Your logic is full of holes. He has played for that club from the age of 12 to 20. You usually become a fan of the club you play for. Carragher was an Everton fan growing up. By his late teens, that was long forgotten. It's a prick move.
If he cared about his family so much, then why did he leave the country at 20? I'm not saying it's the same thing. I'm saying I can judge a person by their actions. I can judge De Gea's decision to join Real Madrid as a negative character trait. You can't do the same thing with an entire football population based on a manager and one player who are obviously kissing up to the English media and general fans. He couldn't have chosen Barcelona, as they did not come in for him. Real Madrid did. But if he wanted a move for footballing reasons, his agent could have secured a move to any top club.
He was influenced by his girlfriend anyway. Had he not been with her, this wouldn't have even come up. Such is life.
You can try as much as you like, but I will maintain by stance that De Gea is a talented cnut.