muller
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I think ignorance has too bad a connotation.
There is nothing wrong with being ignorant as long as you are not willing to stay ignorant, that's the difference.
Kids are ignorant, you as a parent are navigating their perspective with every interaction you have with them, this is just part of a wider societal perspective.
Agree here, to an extent. But would you say at some point we are teaching racism? I disagree with teaching religion to children who are too young to understand what it is - it's almost along those lines (but not as heavily!). You're teaching them what they should think.
I always encourage my kids to treat everyone the same - when my 3 year old asked me about a woman in a wheelchair I said that whilst he was lucky that his legs might work better than hers, she might be lucky because she's much better at maths, or can write amazing stories. He then sat in the car and cried because he was jealous she was better at sums than he was.
I wonder what the outcome would be if nobody was ever allowed to speak about racism, religion, sexism etc in or around children - whether kids themselves would find it and "invent" it the way our ancestors did - given the change of how the world works now. Totally unrealistic with the world we are in now though - still so horrible on and under the surface.
Not to say I think some things should be swept under the rug in its entirety of course.